Be a Good Teammate

3 Tips for Creating Strong Relationships With Your Coaching Staff

By Mary Archibald|Updated on June 27, 2023 (originally published on August 31, 2022)

The success of a sport is often measured by a team's record. But what records don't tell you is that a large part of this success comes from the relationship between coaches and athletes. All college athletes come to college with the talent, ready to make friendships with their peers and be successful in their sport. However, it is crucial to create a strong relationship with your coach if you are interested in playing time and improving your game. Improving these relationships with coaches can improve team morale, drive motivation, and open communication between the team and coaching staff. Here's how:

Communicate!

Communication is crucial in this dynamic. A coach can effectively lead, train, and listen to you and your needs as an athlete…but only with clear communication on both ends. Make a special effort to ask questions and be curious and honest with your coach. This will only build trust within your relationship and create cohesion within the team.

Give it Your All

Show Effort! Being deliberate in your interest and dedication to the sport will benefit you and your coach. A coach wants to see nothing more than hard work and mindful commitment to the team. This could mean working on your skills individually, staying late at practice, and conditioning harder than anyone else.

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Be Respectful

The final tip for establishing a fruitful connection with your coach is respect. Many coaches have spent the better part of their lives playing, studying, and understanding their particular sport. While sometimes you may disagree about a play, strategy, or leadership characteristics, it is best to let the coach do their job. This does not mean you should not ask questions and offer suggestions. Sometimes a new perspective is a good thing, but make sure to do it sincerely and respectfully.

The relationship between a coach and athlete is one of the most rewarding relationships a college athlete can make. This relationship is crucial for your personal growth and for the overall success of the team. Coaches often become cheerleaders and mentors forever, so go sit down with your coach and have a conversation, show dedication on the field, and be respectful!